Wednesday 15 March 2017

How was your night?

Today, it's about "HOW WAS YOUR NIGHT? "

The night is gone, the night was my past... I'm alive to a new day and what it holds for me. That is what counts! 

People just love dealing with people's  past. (Most times it's the only thing they've got on you, when they want to negatively criticize or judge)

One should rather be interested in how you're fairing/doing at the very moment of interaction.

How about?... HOW ARE YOU DOING THIS MORNING?, HOW IS EVERYTHING? or HOW ARE YOU TODAY? I think that sounds better.

Who "how was your night" epp abeg, wetin you wan know!? 

#EAI ©️®️

3 comments:

  1. Lol. The Sister to that question is also "Did you sleep well?" Wow! what? Is this considered a compliment, or part of displaying kindness and concern? It has turned into a pattern of language skills (Lol) to so many people.

    Most of the time in life, people are more Interested in the past>Comfort Zone, and they assume that the past are people's weaknesses.
    The past is one of the eye catching points you have made on the post. I never would have looked at it in that perspective. Kudos for your insightful content. Sometimes, the honest way one could use to respond to these questions could warrant heated arguments or exchange of words. Then all one can do is swallow spit (Men akpòròh Etab) and respond politely just for the sake of responding or being nice.

    My response to these type questions are always simple "Yak anam dieh?"

    Why do they ask tho?

    * Probably, it's their own way of showing that they care
    * They want to be nosy about one's way of living.
    * They might Like the person, and unable to approach the person to express their innermost feelings (So they ask, how was your night).
    * Maybe it's a Nigerian thingy!
    * They might want to know a whole lot of things about someone.

    Who "How was your night" epp?

    People wey dong chop belle full o.

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  2. Loll.
    Okay, I've learnt something new.
    Thank you sir.

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  3. How was your night Al? Lol!

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