Thursday 15 September 2016

Love you, some you.

Be so thankful for your struggle because if it didn't happen, you wouldn't have stumbled upon your own strength.
Flowers grow back, even after they are stepped on. So will you and I. Sometimes you forget about taking care of yourself. You get so used to putting others in front you that you fall into the other roles you may have.

I don't understand why society installs in all of us that, if we take a moment to take care of ourselves that we are "selfish". You are NOT selfish.
When you take care of yourself, you are literally making yourself happy. That is also where you love yourself. You got to take care of your needs so you don't become so dependent on someone else making you happy.
Take a relationship for instance: Your man/woman should enhance your life, not make your life for you.

It isn't someone's job to take care of you or make you happy... It's YOURS.
So go pamper the heck out of yourself. (Pardon my Latin) 
Just in case you needed this: You are so beyond loved, You are so powerful, You are surrounded by so many miracles (go look in the mirror because you are a miracle)
You are here to be one big ball of fire in this crazy dark world of ours.
And really,really,really, believe that whatever you desire is here and you CAN and WILL have it all.



2 comments:

  1. As we advance with wisdom, and age, we've learned that our Life is like a moving train. Well! Yeah, getting knocked down emotionally or otherwise by the people that we've given the go ahead to hold the key to our happiness. Forgetting that it's our life, and we must take charge over it. It's quite unfortunate that sometimes it's easy to say it and really difficult to apply them in real life situations. If we let others control how happy we are, we are in for a mess always. we will continuously get hurt in the process, have a very low self esteem which is quite popular in our thriving world now. We should not let people decide how happy we are/ how happy we want to be, because we are basically giving away the control of our own selves to people that may or may not turn out to be pleasant for us, or even responsible enough to be trusted with our happiness. Taking charge of our own happiness is the key to being truly happy. Absorbing these In, and will apply them bits by bits daily. Excellent post

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